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Reading List

At Choosing Love, we believe that reading is an essential part of healing and strengthening a marriage. That's why we have compiled a list of helpful Christian books that we recommend to our clients. Check out our selection below and feel free to reach out to us with any questions!

Love Is A Decision

By Gary Smalley

According to family counselor and bestselling author Gary Smalley, good marriages are no accident. And deciding to love—in the practical ways outlined here—can result in relationships that are tougher than those tough times.

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The Christian Couple

By Larry & Nordis Christen Clark

New insight on the meaning of love, exercising authority without being dictatorial and submission

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Communication: Key To Your Marriage.

By H Norman Wright

What does it take to make a marriage intimate, loving, and fun? It all starts with communication, the key to a vibrant, happy, lifelong partnership.


Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken Cindy Beall

What could have been the end of a marriage instead became a testament to God’s miraculous ability to restore broken hearts and damaged bonds.

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I Don't Want A Divorce

By Dr. David Clark

David Clarke has seen marriages turn around in just three months. In I Don't Want a Divorce, he takes his practical plan and presents it using wit, Scripture, and personal stories to help couples turn difficult marriages into great ones.


Rebuilding A Marriage Better Than New Cindy Beall

You've made a commitment to see your marriage healed, so now what? Whether your relationship is recovering from an affair, pornography addiction, or just years of coasting, Cindy Beall shares from her redeemed-marriage journey to help you

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Love and War

By John Staci Eldredge

The Eldredges show how couples can win “by fighting for each other, instead of against each other.” As they say, “We live in a great love story, set in the midst of war.”

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His Needs, Her Needs

By Willard F. Harley, Jr.

In the classic bestseller His Needs, Her Needs, Willard F. Harley, Jr., identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to satisfy those needs in their spouses.

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Intended for Pleasure

By Dr. Ed Wheat

A classic for thirty years, Intended for Pleasure is an easy-to-read reference book that combines biblical teaching on love and marriage with the latest medical information on sex and sexuality.


Torn Asunder: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair

By Dave Carder

Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples.

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Love and Respect 

By Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

A Simple Message: A wife has one driving need--to feel loved. When that need is met, she is happy. A husband has one driving need--to feel respected. When that need is met, he is happy. When either of these needs isn't met, things get crazy."

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5 Love Languages

By Gary Chapman

In 5 Love Languages®, you’ll discover the secret that has transformed millions of relationships worldwide. Whether your relationship is flourishing or failing, Dr. Gary Chapman’s proven approach to showing and receiving love will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your partner.

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